Christmas Eve Eve I made my way to Ghana to meet my friend Bright, who although was born & raised in Ghana, moved to NYC at 15 and this was his first time back since he left. Soon after I arrived, we headed North to his hometown in the Volta region. During the holidays it's customary to walk the streets and greet everyone and this kept Bright especially busy since no one had seem him in about 10 years! I was there for moral support I guess you could say. There were a couple of younger girls, Bright's cousins, who were staying with us at the house and naturally, I found myself hanging with them a lot, too. They were a hilarious, fun, smart group of girls. We had a lot of fun dancing at the many, many parties up through New Years.
Greeting the town on Christmas Day
Dancin' into the night
Traditional celebration
Christmas we ate & ate lots of food and in one of the soups I found...a goat SKULL. It is a delicacy (along with the meat cooked in the goats blood...) and of course not wanting to be rude I indulged.. I even ate the eyeball...it was GROSS; don't let the exotic-ness fool you as I did. The meat actually tasted much like a brownie, is that uncultured of me to say? Much of the rest of the food was spicy and delicious, though. A nice change for my recent Ugandan palette! The women, Bright's aunts, were amazing and cooked tirelessly, which to be honest felt uncomfortable for me; I felt like I should help but
wasn't allowed. I had to protest even to do my own laundry (which I hate doing in the first place, but hate even more someone else doing it for me!). They were happy to have me hold a baby though..
Chokin down the eyeballAt 26, the women always ask why I don't have a kid yet?
As I said, many of the nights we were down at Bright's grandmothers, dancing and partying away to traditional Ghanaian 'high life' which is
awesome music. As the sole white-person a.k.a. "obruenie" (or as Bright insisted, a "guest"....ahem) I posed for many pictures, danced with many strangers and even had to give a few speeches. Pretty wild, but fun nonetheless...
With Bright. You cant tell from this pic (thank goodness) but the girls braided my entire head...Safe to say it wasn't a good look on me..One day we went trekking through the jungle for palm wine (straight from the trunk of palm trees!), which was so cool to do but to be honest I have to say it tastes rather like sweet, warm urine...woof. Sorry Bright. After I couldn't take anymore of the palm wine, some of the women brought me food and were entertained while we ate together; so surprised an obruenie would eat their food - but I loved most of the food there!! Midway through our meal, some rough and tough guys rolled up on motorbikes and minutes later a scuffle broke out... Just as I asked one of the women if it'd turn into a fight, a few kids ran passed into the house and sure enough I was ushered in right after. I was in the middle of a tribal war!!! The neighboring town and thus a different tribe, wanted to protest an election the following day, and decided to attack the very house we were at! I felt safe enough inside but what an afternoon!! A drawback to this occurrence you ask? We couldn't watch the Arsenal v. Chelsea game because the town that attacked us was the only town nearby that had the tv station!
Workin for our "wine"!Spearin a fish (totally staged, too..)Our time in Bright's hometown was really fun & very interesting and I got to learn a lot about the traditions, customs and ways of life. It was interesting to see many of the similarities to Uganda, but also the different ways the people adapted to life. Family ties run deep, and there's a real communal feeling amongst the people. Many of the kids are raised by other family members and it's quite something to witness what many in the community do for others; The women particularly interested me. I found many very selfless which was inspiring to see. It was also encouraging to see the difference in lives of women there while most of the time they were tending to the cooking, cleaning and child rearing as in Uganda, they also seemed to have a bit more freedom and the community was a bit more open to shows of affection between couples. I never once saw a woman bow to a man, and unfortunately I've seen it in Uganda a few too many times. For me this brought up the importance people place on "tradition", but often times I feel the label can be applied a bit too liberally: Scarring babies faces at birth to identify their tribe, female genital mutilation (still done in parts Northern Ghana, not to mention other parts of Africa), or the practice (??!) of having more than one "wife" for men. This is a whole other blog entirely, but definitely something I tuned into right away...
A couple days after New Years we left his hometown & went back to the capital city, Accra. We had fun exploring the town, but the traffic was KILLER. Combined with the scorching heat, taxis that
never had working windows in the back seat, lack of any tarmac roads and extremely dusty 'shoulders', we were always in for an interesting ride. Usually though my car ride entertainment was due to the seemingly endless stream of street vendors hoisting their wares into our faces (I guess the lack of window access was a good thing?). I'm used to the absolute craziness of Kampala's vendors trying to force any-and-everything on me, but in Accra, it seemed like there was nowhere safe; while in Kampala most of the vendors are confined to the market, in Accra they ran wild...literally. They dodged traffic trying to get you to buy a loaf of bread or they were sprinting after our car to get us some High School Musical stickers. My most curious encounter was a man holding a dead rat on a string and unfortunately for this particular ride, I did have a working window... And although I could get used to the drive up convenience of it all, I did wonder how much money these vendors could honestly make? Like I've seen before in Uganda, people really have a survival instinct, but not in the typical sense we think in the West - it's as basic as making enough money to eat for the day, be it just $1 worth, it doesn't so much matter.
The city has a lot more Western influences than I was expecting; we even went into a real mall. And in Accra again, lots of delicious food, none of which I could begin to cook for myself. One day we also took a drive out to a animal rehab/monkey sanctuary and got up close & personal with some animals. I tried to hold a monkey but it wasn't having it and bit my arm-ouch!
Next we traveled a couple hours West to Cape Coast, which was a sweet little Rastafarian town on the beach. We visited Elmina Castle and Cape Coast castle; both used by the Dutch, Portuguese and British in times of slave trade. It was pretty unsettling to stand in the Slave Dungeons - they were dark, stuffy and very small. Hundreds were packed into a room no bigger than most "master bedrooms" in the US; this is also where the inhabitants went to the bathroom, too, so one can only imagine the smell that permeated those dungeons. We walked through the underground tunnels to the "Room of No Return" which is where the slaves that survived the dungeon, would exit to be herded onto the ship and sent off.
Once we returned from the Coast it was time to head back to Uganda and after landing back in Nairobi, I loaded up for a (agonizing!) 8 hour bus ride to the Ugandan border. I was met with the oh-so-familiar"mzungu" calls, the money changing vultures trying to scam me at every chance, and the border patrol overcharging me for my visa. I was even greeted by a family of baboons on the side of the road! Even with another 5 or so hours til I was back at my house, it felt good to be back in Uganda. Yesterday was especially great because I got to visit some of my kids houses and surprise them since I was back a bit earlier than I had first told them. It was so wonderful to see them again and very humbling to see their huge smiles as they ran up and into my arms. It was a really special feeling and made me feel good about being back here, ready to take on the second half of my time here. These kids are so special and absolutely remind me while all the traveling this month was fun and I was fortunate to be able to see and experience what I did, they are the reason why I'm here!!
Thank you to you guys who sent cards, holiday greetings and good wishes. It really made me feel good and loved from lands fah fah away. I'm sending some of this sunshine your way in hopes you are staying warm in the winters of Chicago and NYC or wherever else you find yourself. Know I'm thinking of you always!
Oh, and
GO BEARS!!!
Thanks for reading,
Heather